Unknown, Yet Sex Sells Everything

Sex is unknown. Shocking, I know, but after all this time we keep redefining what is and isn't sex. Not all that long ago, I watched John Oliver interview a real victim that Bill Clinton apparently did not have sex with. Yet now, oral sex is very much sex. Or is it? As I discussed two weeks back, some consider BDSM play, without penetration, as sex. Some don't. Depends upon whom you're talking to. Then we have another politician in the US that cannot spend any time alone with another woman for fear "mother" will think he is flirting with her and that is construed as sex in his world. Time to flip the coin. The boxing ring offers us a scantily clad female walking around with the round number. Bikini wearing busty babes are at all the [Read more...]

Truth’s Bluff

Truth is a comedian that often wears a cloak of fact to deceive. It likes to bluff in this game of life. The fact is that truth is about belief, bias, perception, and decision. Fact, itself, rarely influences truth. https://twitter.com/cpmcclennan/status/320522770255585280 I've tweeted that more than once, but as you can see, it is seven years since the last time. I used hashtags that were not necessary to the point, but they were (and still are) my truth. We atheists are often very good at covering our truth with a wallpaper of facts, legitimate or not. Funny, in that it is a similar tactic to those that push religious dogma. I've don't this, myself. Below is a gorgeous tune by Don Henley that I've searched for a [Read more...]

Negotiating Consent

Bondage, discipline, dominance and submission, sadomasochism...this is BDSM in a nutshell. Though I don't think it likes being in a nutshell. BDSM would get very grumpy were it in a nutshell. The concept of BDSM is as an umbrella over a wide awry of concepts. GQ, of all publications, gives a very vanilla and beginner A-Z list of some BDSM concepts. Can we be honest here? GQ is not the magazine you want to use for info on BDSM. On my scanning it, the one thing it does get right is the complete need for enthusiastic and knowledgable consent for those that practice any form of BDSM respectfully. Seriously, though, go to Fetlife. In essence, it is the social media site for those practicing BDSM. You'll find every possible [Read more...]

The Art of Making Up Stats

Stats really are just another form of the clock. Another way for we humans to track things in the passage of time. This era of COVID-19, or Coronavirus, has been no exception. Stats, like the economy and unlike time, are generally made up. I've always been one to make up my own stats about things. As an example, 125% of relationships fail with people you have never communicated with nor have met. See, I made that up, and yet, you know I'm right. Although I do exaggerate on occasion. So with this in mind, let us talk about the elephant in the room that most are already talking around. Yes, you know where this is going. Let us discuss the plight of the poor Keystone XL Pipeline. No, I'm kidding. Let's talk about the [Read more...]

101 Things Not To Do While in Isolation

Let's start with the easiest one first, shall we? Don't write articles entitled "101 Things Not To Do While in Isolation" and actually intend to write seriously about it. Being I tend to do what I say, I am going to follow that first reason and write something else entirely. Too many people with the blues already over the isolation we've all be inadvertently forced into, so I don't exactly want to add to that by telling them what else they can't do. So I sit here on a Saturday morning, listening to the crackle of the fire in the fireplace and the tapping of my fingers on the keys. I recall just how happy I am that the fire remains in the fireplace as were it anywhere else in my living room, self-isolating would suddenly seem [Read more...]

Reality in Rhythm

Author's Note: This is the second part of my newest series of erotica, "Those That Know", and my first piece since hearing about the passing of Rush drummer and lyricist, Neil Peart. I'm not a big one on celebrity culture, but my regular readers will know that Neil will now hold a place for me along with the likes of Douglas Adams and George Carlin. Although the words below have little to do with that (mostly), I wanted to mention this having found the prompt for this week's Wicked Wednesday, "Time Keeping", well...er...well timed. Millie looked at the two erections in front of her. Her naked body was positioned on a comfy chair. She sat with legs together, specifically so her knees would fit between the two men, and her hands on her [Read more...]

Reality Expenses

"Why is there no sex version of Guitar Hero," Millie asked as she lowered onto the erection beneath her. "There should be one!" Carter nodded and watched as his wife lowered completely, sheathing the hard cock, before stepping forward and offering his own to her lips. "I suspect," Greg said from beneath Millie in more grunt than actual voice, "they'd be worried about it causing too many insecurity issues." Millie rose and lowered on Greg's cock three times as she considered this. "They watch porn, don't they? That's pretty unrealistic and yet there is generally still a drive to have sex for folk in spite of those images." She wrapped her fingers around Carter's erection and stroked. She felt the warmth of desire to have it on her [Read more...]