BDSM to Me

What does BDSM mean to me?bdsm

Well, it really means freedom, does it not?  The realization that we do not all get off the same way…that we can be unique without seeming weird.

There are aspects of BDSM that I simply do not get…examples are numerous that just go beyond my being able to stomach…but I can still respect those that do.

The fact that some like oral sex while riding hippos and using horse whips…on each other…it is proof of our diversity.  The fact that to some, keeping the lights on is kink enough…well, that’s just scary.

Now, if we could just all accept the theory that everyone…each and every last one of us…has some kink.  It just varies in degrees.

Whether it be that couple who giggle at keeping the lights on, or the two guys who put collars on each other during a double penetration threesome…we all have our place in the world.

BDSM…boldly doing something mischievous…I solemnly swear to be up to something naughty.

Pull a little hair…

Make a little love…

Get down tonight!

wickedwed

14 Comments

  1. Love it! When someone asks about “kink”, my answer is always the same: Define kink. What’s taboo or kink for one may be a totally normal part of everyday life for another – this in and of itself makes the word entirely relative. Sadly, for many, thinking of it this way seems to take away from the allure and excitement because the thought of being different is or was part of the turn on for them. To those, please remember that even if you’re doing something a million others are doing, no one is going to do it quite like you.

  2. A great post and I totally agree! We should just all respect each other’s choices, right? Why judge anyone else for the choice they have made?

    Yes, we all have some kink!

    Rebel xox

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